It's been fun


#1

Unfortunately, my days on these forums are over. While some say I deserve whatever, NO one deserves having their family stalked and children contacted via social media. No one deserves for some deranged lunatic to hunt down a spouse for the mere purpose of trying to ruin a marriage.

During my separation in 2016, I spoke to someone for two months on FB IM. I was going thru hell and needed someone who wouldnt judge me, to listen. Fast forward two months and I realize said individual is taking things a lil too serious and cut all contact. This individual has been terrorizing / stalking / obsessing ever since. He’s chopped my disabled child’s picture then progressed to contacting my adult son on social media. The final straw was a friend of mine being bullied by said psychopath into giving up info on my spouse. I subjected my family to a deranged individual online and now I have to stop the madness before it gets any worse. Let this be a lesson to everyone…be careful who you trust.


#2

I’m sorry this has happened to you. I hope this person stops harassing you sooner rather than later.


#3

I’m sorry to hear it also. I know what it’s like to make bad choices about whom to trust online.


#4

Don’t they have some pretty severe stalkin laws out there where you live?


#5

Holy shit Flea, sorry to hear that


#6

I’d at least like to see the chops, all things being equal.


#7

Oh Roose…so tacky.


#8

WHen they leave you always have to make them poast one moar time Starlın.


#9

Good point.

Carry on.


#10

That really sucks. IMO, if that is someone who comes here, it would be a public service to identify the person. Stalking is a crime.


#11

You know what’s a crime is people giving perfect strangers access to their personal information online.


#12

That’s kind of like saying if you get drunk and then get raped, the crime was you getting drunk.

Giving out PI is stupid. Using it illegally is a crime.


#13

Well ya know, I wasn’t really using “crime” in the legal sense there, but okay then…stupid.


#14

If she was poasting on FB, the boards are blameless.


#15

Social media doesn’t stalk people, only people stalk people.


#16

But seriously, sorry this is happening to you and your family. Be safe.


#17

What the hell is wrong with a telephone, huh? email even?
I have never understood the need for these social media sites like MySpace and FB, and the others where kids are lured by predators etc. I am happy to be of the old way.


#18

Shouldn’t there be background checks before you can purchase a 'puter and post? It’s only common sense.


#19

I was using “crime” in both the legal sense and the more symbolic sense relating to ethics.


#20

Is there no point at which a person must accept responsibility for their own carelessness?